Practical insight · 1 min read
Preparing for a difficult conversation
Clarity about your purpose can leave more room for the other person’s perspective.
Name what you observed
Separate what happened from the interpretation you have attached to it. “The last two deadlines changed without notice” gives a more concrete starting point than a judgement about someone’s character. This is an illustrative example, not a client case.
Know what you want to understand
Prepare a genuine question. You may not know what constraints, expectations or information the other person is working with. Listening does not require abandoning your concern; it gives you a fuller basis for discussing it.
Make the next step specific
If you reach an agreement, clarify who will do what and when you will revisit it. Some conversations need time or an appropriate organisational process. Not every disagreement can or should be resolved in one exchange.
A question to take with you
What part of your account is observation, and what part is interpretation?
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